I was renting an apartment that had a backdoor leading to a walkway, chain-link fence and a narrow strip of hardpan between. One day, I decided that it would be fun to plant morning glories there. I planted seeds and tended them, and they started to grow up the fence. I went out just about every day to see how they were doing. I had no idea that the area was full of fleas, which of course I brought back into the apartment. The entire building had to be fumigated!
I lived in apartments for quite a while, which limited my gardening efforts to potted indoor plants. In those days, I was often the recipient of those gorgeous Boston ferns in hanging pots. I adored them ... but they did not adore me. In no time, the plant would start looking sad; not long after it would die. This happened repeatedly. Later I roomed with a good friend who filled our apartment with plants, especially coleus. The coleus didn't like me either. We soon learned that she was good with plants that needed nurturing and I was good with plants that liked to be ignored. My specialty was spider plants; they didn't mind waiting a week or so to get watered.
I finally moved in to my own home. The house was a tiny 1940s box on a fairly large lot. Suddenly I had a huge garden to take care of. I giddily planted trees and bushes; about fifty percent of them survived. I learned the hard way to read up on a plant before buying after I planted four blue eucalyptus, which can grow up to 180 feet high. I was lucky that three died. The trunk of the fourth grew so large that it pushed a fence over!
I had the lawn mowed and trees trimmed, but did everything else. After a while, I was only growing plants that didn't mind waiting a week to be watered. Even so, it took whole weekends of gardening to keep up. After a few years it was gorgeous.
I realized that although I loved gardening, I had become a slave to my first garden. Soon after, I moved in to a condo with a tiny plot behind it—small enough to keep up with, I thought. The soil was clay and many of the plants had to be replaced because they were planted in the wrong zone or soil or liked sun but were planted in the shade, and so on. But I am grateful that I have had two beautiful versions of this garden already.